Season 2 Episode 2 of the Dear Black Woman Podcast
he second episode of Season 2 of Dear Black Woman, hosts Kami Redd, Lauren Edwards, and Tanisha Mercer welcomed special guest Just Mike the Poet. The discussion centered around living authentically, owning your truth, and navigating life unapologetically. With Mike’s insight as a poet, author, and motivational speaker, the episode offered a heartfelt exploration of self-discovery and purpose.
What Does Living Authentically Mean?
The episode opened with the question, "What does living authentically mean to you?" Mike shared that authenticity begins with self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of understanding who you are beyond societal expectations. “It’s about finding who you are outside of what’s popular, trendy, or expected,” Mike explained.
The panel also reflected on how the pandemic forced many to confront their true selves. Kami shared her personal journey, recounting how moving from Atlanta to Texas during the lockdown became a catalyst for self-discovery. “It was a scary but exciting time,” she admitted.
Lauren added that authenticity is a continuous journey, particularly for women balancing roles as daughters, mothers, and partners. “We often adapt to the needs of others and lose sight of ourselves,” she noted.
The Power of Words and Vulnerability
As a poet, Mike discussed how heartbreak and empathy became the foundation of his writing. His works, including The Boyfriend Book and Dear Woman, have touched countless lives, offering a sense of healing and connection.
Mike emphasized the power of vulnerability, both in his art and personal interactions. “When people respond to my words, it reminds me that real art is timeless,” he said, describing how readers often connect deeply with his books, even years after their release.
Authenticity and Boundaries
A recurring theme was the balance between authenticity and setting boundaries. Mike shared that being true to yourself doesn’t mean being the same with everyone. “Authenticity is about knowing your core and deciding how far you let people in,” he said.
Kami expanded on this by highlighting the importance of maintaining boundaries in relationships and workspaces. “You can’t pour into others if you’re constantly depleting yourself,” she stated.
Lessons in Love and Relationships
The panel also delved into how authenticity impacts relationships. Mike noted that many people struggle with love because their relationships are transactional rather than spiritual. “If you show me who you love, I can show you how much you love yourself,” he remarked, emphasizing that self-love is the foundation for meaningful connections.
Kami reflected on how societal pressures often lead women to prioritize others over themselves, sharing how her book Dear Black Woman aims to help women reclaim their worth.
Advice for Living Authentically
As the episode concluded, Mike offered practical advice:
Start with the Gut: Evaluate what you consume physically and mentally. “Discipline in what you eat and watch can lead to discipline in other areas of life,” he advised.
Be Intentional: Spend time reflecting on what genuinely brings you joy and fulfillment.
Prioritize Self-Discovery: Authenticity begins with understanding who you are and what you value.
Final Thoughts
The conversation highlighted that living authentically is not about perfection but about showing up for yourself every day. By embracing self-discovery, setting boundaries, and owning your truth, you can navigate life with purpose and confidence.
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